mostly work, for me. a quick bath one afternoon to get away from it all, a toddler who wanted to join me (also, nemo). a missed 80th birthday party for my grandfather - which nearly broke my heart, selfless man that he is. a dinner at my parents' house, a dance party to conclude it. a date in with my guy, a walk downtown for a cookie with my little boy. the Super Bowl, by way of Sarabeth's in Tribeca - we had the place to ourselves, and that was the silver lining I'd looked for.